Not all students will get desired results but there are ways to lessen the feelings of failure
Anne McCormack Irish Times – Tuesday 11th August 2015
Planning ahead and thinking about ways to cope with possible disappointment may be useful for results day.
Disappointment is an inevitable part of life. Everyone feels it at some point and it can be a difficult feeling for any person to bear. But disappointment has value, as all emotions do. Disappointment is of great value, as it bears witness to hope.
Many young people have high hopes on Leaving Cert results day. These hopes often relate to receiving enough points to access the third-level course of their choice. And some might feel disappointment.
While the prospect of planning for the possibility of disappointment may seem pessimistic, it is worth giving the possibility some thought.
It gives you the chance to become prepared psychologically, in case disappointment on Leaving Cert results day enters the frame.
Here are some ways to think about and deal with disappointment. By taking the time to reflect on these ideas, young people will be more prepared to handle this difficult emotion, and the disappointment will then be less likely to overwhelm.
Tuning in to thoughts as well as feelings
Disappointment can be intense. It can seem as if the event, the Leaving Cert results, is directly causing this unwanted feeling: I got this result, therefore I feel disappointment. It is important to know that it is the thoughts about the event, rather than just the event itself, that causes the feeling to arise. Therefore, I got this result and am now thinking this, is the cause of the feeling. By tuning into and by challenging these thoughts, young people can gain strength and influence over their emotional self and feel better.